What do you want??

I did it. I open the talk.

While driving to geylang for our feet reflexology, I popped the question that was burning inside.

I ask about out future together.

And as usual, he shunned and avoid as much as he could.

Am I demanding way too much? All I want is an clear direction to where our lives will go together.

I asked about where we could stay as a couple and asked about his thoughts. I needed to know if it’s just me, fighting a battle alone.

Because I think he thinks everything in the future will be a breeze. And obviously I know better. Nothing will be a breeze. Although, his parents are opening up slowly. I cannot deny that the difference is still clear. I see him so comfortable in my home, lounging with my daddy and brother. And here I am still sitting upright, proper and uptight.

I know what’s in store for me, it’s all too clear. The only problem is he don’t. He will be what he is now, lagging behind. And I can see what his parents meant, in every sense.

No matter what I will be there to help him as much as I can. Even if I need to do a lot more sacrificing than I expect myself back then. I just hoped that everything is worth it. And no matter how hard the journey will take me. I will go on head strong.

In all fairness, he did asked me what I think. And that was after I said so much. He just listen, without a single word. Stony and silent. Eyes on the road, and quiet.

I stated my point, clear and direct. But with some kindness, stating that I am prepared to for whatever, although I want to really come home every single time and be COMFORTABLE.

2014, and the lunar new year is coming in a few days.

Let’s see if whatever I show hand on my boy, is worth every time passed all these years.

Step by step. Bit by bit. Time by time


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Just another girl

Always thinking, always wondering. living everyday. She is standing strong for herself, looking forward and always try to be positive. Now, tell her something that she don't already know.

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